Anonymous: From a woman's perspective, What do you think of the friendzone? Do you think it's a common thing for ppl to overlook "good" traits in a partner for attraction or is it just something that ppl (guys especially) say to feel better about rejection?
I think that everyone has good traits & bad traits .. I don’t think they’re being overlooked if a person sees another as just a friend . Maybe the traits that person posses doesn’t fit what the other feel they need at the moment? Or feels that they need that in a relationship? Maybe somebody just wants to fuck & the other wants a marriage?
Timing is everything . What’s the perfect person if it’s not the perfect time?
Rejection is simply rejection, you can’t take it to the heart. One door closes another one opens . I think people like to blame others for what they lack . And why would you try and force a relationship .. Bottom line .
If it’s made for you it can’t belong to anybody else.